June 30, 2006

New Curtains

Filed under: General — Maria @ 9:11 pm


Okay, the new curtains are all up. The dining room and the kitchen ones went up with no trouble at all. In the living room it was a different story. I thought I could get by with the old curtain rods, but they just didn’t work at all so I drove down to Wal-Mart and found the kind that I needed. I don’t know why I think I can use the old when I know in my heart it isn’t going to work. My stalling and trying to use the old caused a delay of a day or two in my getting the house back in shape. Anyway, I am most happy with the results!

Today, I shampooed the living room rug. The dogs are definitely on my bad list. They are either getting senile, sneaky, or maybe I never did get them house broke. Anyway, there were enough little urine spots around to make it a bigger job than I had anticipated and to make me threaten them with diapers.

Now it is out to the hot tub for a dip in some luke warm water and a few relaxing bubbles before heading off to bed.

June 28, 2006

More Smiles, Less Whine

Filed under: General — Maria @ 6:31 am

You are all wonderful allowing me this whining time during our hot, muggy days. I am back in a better mood thanks to all of your helpful comments and to Bob’s climbing onto the roof to recheck the work Air-Rite did on the swamp cooler and to re-adjust so that more water reached the pads. He also added a piece of cardboard to the vent in my office that deflects the air away from the doorway and toward my desk. Sometimes, I am in awe at the genuis of this man.

As I grow older, I realize why every one is concerned about the elderly and the effects of heat. Our town now has what they refer to as cool places for the elderly and disabled to gather when the temperature goes over 108 degrees.

I have continued to work out even though it is hot, but yesterday I stopped aerobics after about 45 minutes and just said, “Enough”. Then I went to Wal-Mart and power-walked twice around the highly air-conditioned store. I have always opposed the Super Wal-Mart that is in the proposal stage, but that walk just may have changed my thinking a little.

Also helping to change my attitude are our travel plans. Bob and I have numerous places to go starting with Wofford Heights to an Independence Day celebration and party that has become a tradition and which we always enjoy.

Following that, we have scheduled a week of Southern California fun interspersed with business, dental, and medical appointments. We start in Barstow, (Bob has a Veterans meeting there) then Palm Springs for a little gambling at their beautiful casino and to take some photos. This is in preparation of a Ship Reunion that he will be chairing in 2007. From there we head to Long Beach and the Aquarium of the Pacific and some shopping. Next to Torrance for our semi-annual Dental appointments and UCLA for check-ups.

Wow, see no whining and it is already 7AM and the birds are singing. I may make it through this desert summer yet.

June 25, 2006

Weather Whining

Filed under: General — Maria @ 3:43 pm

It seems days since I have posted or even written anything. IT IS SIMPLY TOO DAMN HOT! I hate the desert in the summer and it looks like this is going to be one of the hottest. Triple digit all the way, I am guessing. Worse yet, there are clouds and ofcourse dreaded humidity with them. All of this puts me in a depressed mood. There isn’t even a good air-conditioned movie to break the mood.

Yes, the air conditioner is on, but the cool air seems to be in the living room, dining room and kitchen. My office remains in the 80’s no matter what I do. Besides, the swamp cooler doesn’t work when it is humid and when I turn the AC on all I hear in my mind is kerchunk, kerchunk. It is the sound of Southern California Edison’s cash register as the dollars go flying out the window and into their coffer.

So I am headed to the living room to quietly sulk and maybe get a few more chapters of Elizabeth Berg’s book,
The Art of Mending, under my belt. Promise to get back to writing soon. I feel better already. Whining can be a good thing!

June 19, 2006

Little Fishies #2

Filed under: Family and Friends — Maria @ 7:46 pm

I want to thank all of you for supporting and encouraging me in the writing of these letters to my unborn twin grand babies. To read the first one go to Little Fishies #1. The following is my second letter written at about the time the twins were still at the blastocyst stage. There is much to marvel and to think about in pregnancy and birth and these are some of my musings as to when the soul enters the body. I am humbled by my lack of spiritual and religious knowledge and find great joy in my need to wonder in grand motherly amazement. As I wrote this, I felt a strong connection to the earth, the heavens, and the spirit.

My Little Fishies,

Tonight, I wandered out to star gaze. The night air crisp, the sky an atramentous background for the sparkling stars and a whisper of silver heralding Milky Way. Welcoming thoughts of days ahead filled my head. Days or perhaps better yet nights, when we will sit together and your little heads will rest on my shoulder or lap while I recite the beautiful words of the most perceptive astronomy lesson of generations.

Twinkle, twinkle little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the sky so high,
Like a Diamond in the sky.

I pause as I try to look past the stars with my spiritual eye. I see little souls playing among the angels, seriously readying themselves to come to earth to the warmth of a mother’s womb and the rhythm of her heart beat. I think about you and your life lessons all being designed out there in a wonderful place that we poor mortals cannot see or understand clearly.

I think about souls and wonder at what magical moment God sends the spirit to join the body. Ironic isn’t it, that you, my grandchildren have this knowledge, and I, who would love to be a woman of wisdom, see only as it says in the bible, “through a glass darkly”. So for now, hold tightly to all you know of your lives before and your path ahead.

I do not know when the soul joins the body, but when I listen to my own motherly instinct from years past, I believe it is at quickening. That is the moment in time your mother feels a baby’s first stirrings; that bewitching moment in which you first tug at her heartstrings.

You will not be able to tell me if I am right. Your little memories of heavenly ways will diminish and fade. You will arrive into this bright new world with only your freshly-planned path, a vivid curiosity, a beautiful mind, and a healthy body. You will arrive to two mommies who love you and who will see that you grow strong. They will teach you the values and morals you need to complete your spiritual growth and above all they will love you unconditionally.

I quietly recite the rest of the nursery rhyme.

I wish I may,
I wish I might,
Have the wish
I wish tonight.

And with those words I look into the mystical night sky and send my wish sailing to the nearest star. Little Fishies, I wish when it is time for your souls to leave heaven, they come quickly, without hesitation, and with purpose. For you, body and soul combined, are loved and celebrated!

June 18, 2006

Before and After Tiling

Filed under: General — Maria @ 6:21 pm

Although, I thought it would never get completed I love the new tile and am so glad that it is in place. A special thanks to Linda’s mom, Joan for her help in picking out the color. So here are the photos I promised to post. Now I am off to shop for new curtains for the dining room and kitchen. =-) You will need to click on the photos to see before and after.

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