September 30, 2009

A Healthy Heart

Filed under: General — Maria @ 1:02 pm

The reports are back on my heart scans. If I read the results correctly, I have a very healthy heart for a woman in her 70’s

What truly fascinates me is the beauty of the photos of my heart. They look like the work of an artist and I am most impressed with all the color and all the scientific data that accompanies them.

I am so glad that I took part in this study. For one thing I am no longer apprehensive about a CAT Scan and it is nice to know that all the hours at the gym doing weight-lifting and aerobics have not been in vain.

Since the heart also represents love, I am adding this photo of Bob, the pups, and the dozen beautiful red roses that he brought home last week. All of which warms my heart immensely.

September 25, 2009

Breakfast

Filed under: Times Remembered — Maria @ 6:32 am

There is a group that write on a certain subject each Friday. The subject for this week was Breakfast. The group is composed of truly excellent and skilled writers including Ashok, Conrad, Grannymarr, Magpie, Marianna and Rummuser. So sit back and enjoy our different approaches to writing about the first meal of the day.

Breakfast Memories

The year is 1944 or 45 and I am eight years old. Our home is a duplex at 3419 Grand Avenue in Minneapolis, Minnesota. The duplex is a two story building, and our living area is all on the first floor.
My bedroom is the last room in the house and is off the kitchen and near the back door.

A crabby old lady named Mrs, McPheter lives above us on the second floor. I dislike her very much because I am always being told by my mother that I must be quiet, I must not disturb Mrs. McPheter. She tells me that If Mrs. McPheter complains Mr. Nelson who owns our building, will make us move. I not only dislike Mrs. McPheter, I fear her and Mr Nelson. In my secure world, they are the threat that could turn my sheltered existence upside down or so I believe.

It is cold in my room and the sun will not be up for hours, but my father is up. I can hear him dressing. Then I hear him coming across the kitchen. his shoes hitting the cold linoleum with a definite resolution. He is on his way to the basement to stoke the huge, old furnace. On the way, he opens my door slightly so that the heat from the kitchen radiator will find its way to warm my room a little.

I cuddle back into my blankets, waiting for warmth. I view my little room with satisfaction. My bed is a youth bed, small narrow and comfortable. My father armed with photos from Ladies Home Journal, and my mother’s encouragement has built a pretty little picket fence three quarters of the way around the bed. He has added a gate hinge on one side so that it will be easier for me to get in and out and he has painted it bright yellow; my favorite color.

Still too early to get up, I finger the little kittens on my bedspread. Each one has been lovingly appliqued to the course muslin top by my mother. Each little kitten is made of material from a favorite childhood garment. Already, I am learning the lesson of remembering.

Now I can hear others stirring. My mother is up and moving quietly around the kitchen as she begins to fix breakfast. My father finished with the task of warming the house, is having his first cup of coffee. Our dog, Terry has been put out for his morning constitution, and the cage of our canary, Denny, has been uncovered. He is chirping happily as the sky turns from dark to light grey.

It is time for my brother, whose bedroom is more in the middle of the duplex, to get up for school. It is his first year in High School and he must take a bus across town to the Catholic All-Boy High School, De La Salle. I snuggle down for a few more minutes and wait.

Soon the first whiff of fried bacon reaches my delighted nostrils. It is my father’s “piece de resistance” and although, mother fixes most of our meals, it is my dad that fries the bacon and if ever there was a gifted bacon maker, it is he. The aroma of the bacon every morning is our call to breakfast. Seldom do either parent have to say, “Time to get up.” The smoky fragrance of bacon always brings us to the table; my brother already dressed and ready for school and me, a mass of tangled curls, rumpled pajama, robe and often mismatched slippers.

I am certain that love wafts into lives with fragrances much lighter, sweeter, and perhaps more poignant, but the love I am remembering is the love that my father put into the frying of the morning’s bacon and his gentle pride in knowing how to call his children to the breakfast table without uttering a word.

September 22, 2009

Twin Invasion - Love Infusion

Filed under: Family and Friends — Maria @ 8:10 pm

My daughter, Kristi, her partner Theresa, and the twins came for a Sunday afternoon visit. I am ever so grateful for the time spent together. Getting almost three year olds ready, in the car, and driving over two hours to get to Ridgecrest is an impressive feat.

They arrived a little after noon armed with an inflatable pool (It is still over 100 degrees here) water balloons, and a bat and ball set and of course the two whirlwinds of energy, Danica and Eric.

I ran off to McDonalds for semi-healthy food. (Who am I kidding!) By the time I returned with the hamburgers, chicken nuggets, fries and drinks, the pool was up and filled with water. Twins were already in their swimsuits and splashing madly about and enjoying the water and the warm sunshine.

As you can see from the photos, Eric tired quickly of wearing a swimsuit and decided to spend the afternoon au naturale. More photos can be seen at Facebook

September 21, 2009

Cat-Scan Update

Filed under: Health — Maria @ 8:35 am

Fall is slow in coming to our valley. The heat of the desert seems to linger through most of September. The only real difference is the coolness of the early morning and the shortening of the hours of daylight. The temperature still rises above 100 degrees before noon.

The cool mornings have resulted in longer walks with the dogs because we are not in a rush to get home before it gets too hot. They also mean having our breakfast in the patio area of our back yard.

Our trip to UCLA was without incident. . . if you don’t count the minor problems like leaving my purse in the motel room when we checked out at 6:30 the morning of the scan. We were only a mile or two from UCLA Medical Center so Bob dropped me at the front door, turned the car around and fought the heavy traffic back to retrieve it. Like a Knight in Shining Armor, he arrived at the Medical center a half hour later, purse tucked securely under his arm. A resigned or patient half-smile on his face.

So blood was drawn, the OK for the scan given and an hour later, I found myself halfway inside a huge white doughnut known as a state of the art, Dual Source CT system and wishing I had signed up for something easier. The truth is, it was not that difficult and if I ever have another scan I will do so without trepidition. Now I will wait to hear what the Doctors saw when they viewed the images of my heart, cartotid arteries, aorta, and other blood vessels. What is it they say, “Knowledge is Power.” I am keeping my fingers crossed just in case.

September 18, 2009

Hope and Renewal

Filed under: General — Maria @ 6:23 pm

There is a group that write on a certain subject each Friday. The subject for this week was Faith and Renewal. This group is composed of truly excellent and skilled writers including Ashok, Conrad, Grannymar, Magpie, Marianna and Rummuser. So it with great trepditaion that I add my first post to the consortium.

Hope and Renewal

I am not a religious person. So for me, hope and renewal are not based on the Bible or Theology, but more on life’s experiences.

Hope is more than just the crossing of fingers and wishing. I see hope as the glimmer that comes just before the hard work of making that small beam of light, reality.

The opposite of hope is despair. It has a way of sneaking into my night thoughts. Despair is a most unwelcomed guest.

Hope comes with the first light of morning and often chases despair away. There are times, that I see the two of them as children on a teeter-totter. One high in the air dominating the scene while the other hovers closs to the ground and waits its turn to soar. Like children on a teeter totter, hope and despair seldom balance for long, but see-saw steadly back and forth.

When I think of renewal, the words reinvent, rejuvanate, rejoice come to mind. I know that life is forever changing and that I must accept change and grow with it. Times of change, both joyful and sorrowful are opportunities for renewal and like hope, take energy and insight. It is from this challenge that comes personal wisdom.

Renewal has it antithesis in exhaustion and the destruction of spirit. Destruction and exhaustion are close cousins to despair and like despair, they are late night visitors and often lose their strength to the awakening of the new day.

Sometime soon, a day will arrive when life as I know it is over. I will approach a new path and I hope I will hear my guide’s voice say, “You have lived a life of hope, you have climbed the mountain of despair, and you have walked through a valley of destruction. You have chosen to do it without a religious compass or a Biblical map to guide you. You have used intelligence, acumen, and free will to make choices. . . not always the wisest, but often ones by which difficult lessons were learned. Take my hand and I will lead you into a place of rest where fear and destruction are only words. Follow me to a Golden Place where hope reigns and renewal resides and where you will rest and ready yourself for new life and new ways.

So dear friends, Here is my prayer. May hope walks on your right. Renewal on your left and may despair and destruction always travel far behind.

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